Feel more loved, united and understood
I help couples feel more connected, understood and loved. I help them to stop taking things personally, stop being defensive and create communication and understanding that restores love and connection.
Having had a 10-year journey on infertility which can put a strain on the best of relationships I’ve personally immersed myself into the area of relationships and help individuals and couples make their relationship be the best it can be.
Subconsciously we can bring so much of our past in to the present moment which not only contaminates our experience in this present moment it can contaminate how we are in relationships
Then there is whole male and female factor and how masculine and feminine ways of operating and being can make us feel like we really are from different planets. However it doesn’t have to be like that!
CLARITY IN RELATIONSHIPS
“One of the deepest feminine desires in intimacy is precisely not to have to always figure it out for her man and guide him.”
“You must listen to your woman more as an oracle than as an advisor”
The Way Of The Superior Man
Stop taking things personally
In my own relationship, I realised I was a master at steering an argument on to a subject I thought I was more likely to win. This was not a conscious decision but driven by habitual subconscious thinking that led me to feel attacked and needing to defend myself rather than focussing on re-establishing understanding and unity. I was too busy taking things personally to really hold the space for my wife she needed at that time.
I help people stop taking things personally and be more present and loving to their partner.
Feel more connected
Another thing I learnt was that my wife felt lonely in our relationship. I was so busy in my head she had no idea how I really felt about things. Women feel connected when they feel understood and understand their partner. When she expressed strong emotion I didn’t know how to handle it. I was scared of it because every time I tried to help it seemed to make it worse! A woman wants to be seen, to be felt, to be heard. She doesn’t want me to fix her problems, she wants me to really understand how she feels. And she wants to understand how I feel about things in life.
I help couples feel close again by connecting more deeply.
No-one teaches us what it really means to be a man or a woman. We are left with societies and Hollywood’s depiction of relationships. I help couples really understand themselves and each other, to get out of their heads, their stories and bring compassion, love and understanding back to their relationship.
Are you Ready to relate in a new way?
Get in touch to to arrange a conversation to see how I can help you.