So this is Christmas
And what have you done?
Another year over
And a new one just begun
Another year over and a new one just begun. This time of year is often a time of reflecting on the year past and looking forward perhaps to what the new year is going to bring. Perhaps hopes and dreams we have that we don’t believe we can achieve. If you dig deep, speak your truth, what are you secret dreams for your life?
I work with some very successful people helping them to be even more successful and to achieve the goals they never realised were possible.
On the outside they are successful but they come to me because they know they are not fulfilling their full potential. They are holding themselves back, in the same way that we can all get in our own way and prevent ourselves from doing the things we would love to do.
What would you like to achieve in 2015 to fill your true potential?
A New Year is also a reminder that time marches on. Another year gone, they seem to go quicker each year! 18 months ago I lost my father quite suddenly and that was a huge reminder for me that life is too short not to be happy. Too short not to go for our dreams, too short not to let go of our fears and step up to the plate and create the life we want.
We can all (including me, which is why I have my own coach) use some help getting out of our own way in order to get on with creating the life we want because we often cannot see our own blind spots. This is why the most successful people have a coach whether in business, sport or life.
Here are some questions to help you begin to explore what you would love to create in your life, perhaps beginning in 2015.
What would I do if I knew I couldn’t fail?
What do I want?
What else?
How do I want to live the rest of my life?
What do I want to create in my life?
What shall be my ultimate legacy?
What is the first small step you could do towards that?
Fear is what tends to hold us back. Fear of failing. Fear of success. Whatever it is, fear is always a prediction of a future which looks scary so we stay where we are. The funny thing is, it is us who has made that prediction up. Nothing can predict the future, not even our own thinking!
What would you do if you could act decisively with or without fear?
If you have something you would love to create in your life, then as a Christmas present to you I would like to gift you a coaching session to help you on your way. Contact me to arrange a suitable time for us to have a powerful conversation.
A very merry Christmas
And a happy New Year
Let’s hope it’s a good one
Without any fear